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Old 11-22-2007, 05:58 AM   #1

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Question a little help with some members

Okay so i have two members, who keep on quarraling with eachother. one is a moderator and the other is a regular user. I gave both of them a warning, however it appears the moderator also gave **TWO**warnings to a regular user..... here is there messages back and forth *SMILEYRILEY is a mod* **BRENDAN is not**
[quote]-------- Original Message --------
Subject: here
Date: Today, 9:48 pm
From: SmileyRiley
To: THFS

Quote:
Originally Posted by SmileyRiley
uhhhhh.... I don't have time to deal with this...

1. Arguing with team members after having received a warning will lead to an immediate additional warning. Should this exceed three strikes a temporary ban will be put in place as above.

2. Members should post in a way that is respectful of other users. Flaming or abusing users in any way will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.

3. Members should remember this board is aimed at a general audience. Posting pornographic or generally offensive text, images, links, etc. will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.

4. Members should post in a way which is consistent with "normal writing". That is users should not post excessive numbers of emoticons, large, small or colored text, etc. Similarly users should not SHOUT or use excessive punctuation (e.g. ! and ?) in topic titles or posts. Users consistently abusing this will be asked to desist.

5. Users using the THF tech team images without being invited to by a team member, will result in a warning.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:25 pm
by Brendan

Show me!
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:25 pm
by SmileyRiley

you have violated more rules than that.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:23 pm
by Brendan

Rules violated:
2. Members should post in a way that is respectful of other users. Flaming or abusing users in any way will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.
4. Members should remember this board is aimed at a general audience. Posting pornographic or generally offensive text, images, links, etc. will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.
12. The above forum rules where applicable also apply to private messaging. Abuse of the private messaging system may lead to warnings (as above) and/or the revocation of private messaging.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:04 pm
by SmileyRiley

WTF is not a swear word and I can't help calling you an ass when your being an ass
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:00 pm
by Brendan

You will be soon issued a warning for Saying "WTF" repeatedly and for calling someone an "ass hole
here was my warning to my moderator [quote]-------- Original Message --------
Subject: here
Date: Today, 9:48 pm
From: SmileyRiley
To: THFS

Quote:
Originally Posted by SmileyRiley
uhhhhh.... I don't have time to deal with this...

1. Arguing with team members after having received a warning will lead to an immediate additional warning. Should this exceed three strikes a temporary ban will be put in place as above.

2. Members should post in a way that is respectful of other users. Flaming or abusing users in any way will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.

3. Members should remember this board is aimed at a general audience. Posting pornographic or generally offensive text, images, links, etc. will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.

4. Members should post in a way which is consistent with "normal writing". That is users should not post excessive numbers of emoticons, large, small or colored text, etc. Similarly users should not SHOUT or use excessive punctuation (e.g. ! and ?) in topic titles or posts. Users consistently abusing this will be asked to desist.

5. Users using the THF tech team images without being invited to by a team member, will result in a warning.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:25 pm
by Brendan

Show me!
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:25 pm
by SmileyRiley

you have violated more rules than that.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:23 pm
by Brendan

Rules violated:
2. Members should post in a way that is respectful of other users. Flaming or abusing users in any way will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.
4. Members should remember this board is aimed at a general audience. Posting pornographic or generally offensive text, images, links, etc. will not be tolerated and will lead to a warning.
12. The above forum rules where applicable also apply to private messaging. Abuse of the private messaging system may lead to warnings (as above) and/or the revocation of private messaging.
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:04 pm
by SmileyRiley

WTF is not a swear word and I can't help calling you an ass when your being an ass
Re: Board warning issued
Sent at: Wed Nov 21, 2007 9:00 pm
by Brendan

You will be soon issued a warning for Saying "WTF" repeatedly and for calling someone an "ass hole
and smileyrileys warning to the regular user
Quote:
The following warning was issued to this user
» you have been told why you are receiving this warning.
SmileyRiley *********** Today, 8:51 pm The following warning was issued to this user
» This is a warning regarding the following post made by you: Tech Help Forums • View topic - this forum sucks .
PLease don't be so hurtful to other users

What do you think i should do???:conf used:
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Old 11-22-2007, 12:46 PM   #2

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Sounds like the member is in the wrong here - simply either ban him or send him an admin warning telling him to stop.

Tell your Moderator to stop arguing aswell
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Old 11-22-2007, 04:19 PM   #3

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Yep, that would definatley be a case for permabanning the member. They obviously lack maturity and it's those sorts of members that nobody wants.
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Old 11-22-2007, 06:32 PM   #4

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See the problem is this: I know both of them personally....
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Old 11-22-2007, 06:41 PM   #5

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You have to take the Admin decision - put aside personal friendships and carry out either a perm ban or warn him once more, then you'll have to ban him if he continues after that warning.

Just tell them, them arguing isn't to be done on the forum!
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Old 11-22-2007, 07:05 PM   #6

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well.... thank you for your help here is what I am thinking of saying
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Hello Brendan and Riley,
I have come up with something that I hope will settle this. First I would like you to read all of the rules, here. Next, as I really don't want to be the big bad policeman (as I am both of your friends) I would like to ask you to think up what you think you could have done differently, and then what you think would be a good consequence for yourself. What do you think would be appropriate for both of you? I would also like to clarify something. This forum is a forum about helping other users not an arguing ground. There is supposed to be a professional feel here. Now, I also know that Riley is a moderator and brendan is not. For right now lets act as if you are both simply registered users. No one has more power than the other right now, okay?
My co-admin (Soundboy) has also been very active in this debate/thingy....
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That most recent response isn't going to get you anywhere. You can't ask them what they think their consequence could be, because I'm sure that both of them think they didn't do anything wrong.

As Flashgear said, do what's in the best interest of your forums. Both the member and the moderator are wrong here for arguing and bickering. If it were me, Riley would no longer be a moderator - that's a definite. I think another strong verbal warning would be enough for Brendan.
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Ban the member or just say you know what screw it, and take a break and let w/e happens, happen.
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say you know what screw it, and take a break and let w/e happens, happen.
He wants the hostility to end between them, not prolong it.

What have you done regarding this issue THFS?
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Old 11-26-2007, 02:45 AM   #10

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I sent them a PM (you can see it above) and they were both very mature, it is settled now... thanks!
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